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The Moth at BK

Friday, December 5, 2014 13 Kislev 5775

8:30 PM - 10:00 PM

We are going to try something new at Bnai Keshet on Friday, December 5th. We are asking all of you - our members and friends, to share a story with the BK family.  We have chosen the theme of providing sanctuary or a safe place. This often often requires generosity; but, could also require forgiveness.
Maybe you granted sanctuary for someone you didn't want to. Maybe you did it because it was the right thing to do, and made a choice to do it even if you didn't want to.
 
Or maybe someone you didn't expect granted you sanctuary, or maybe you had to practice humility to accept sanctuary from someone whose help you didn't want to accept.
 
Or maybe you made a choice to grant yourself sanctuary.
 
In any case, the act of sanctuary, given or received, should have changed how the person saw themselves, or others or the world in general. Maybe it changed their behavior, or made them think differently about other people's behavior and motives.
 
The stories should be personal. The stories should have actually happened to you  and/or changed your life.

Storytelling Tips from THE MOTH©

Be forewarned:
Moth stories are told, not read. We love how the storyteller connects with the audience when there is no PAGE between them! Please know your story “by heart” but not by rote memorization. No notes, paper or cheat sheets allowed on stage.

Have some stakes.
Stakes are essential in live storytelling.  What do you stand to gain or lose? Why is what happens in the story important to you? If you can’t answer this, then think of a different story. A story without stakes is an essay and is best experienced on the page, not the stage.

Start in the action.
Have a great first line that sets up the stakes or grabs attention.

No: “So I was thinking about climbing this mountain.  But then I watched a little TV and made a snack and took a nap and my mom called and vented about her psoriasis then I did a little laundry (a whites load) (I lost another sock, darn it!) and then I thought about it again and decided I’d climb the mountain the next morning.”

Yes: “The mountain loomed before me. I had my hunting knife, some trail mix and snow boots. I had to make it to the little cabin and start a fire before sundown or freeze to death for sure.”

Steer clear of meandering endings
They kill a story! Your last line should be clear in your head before you start. Yes, bring the audience along with you as you contemplate what transpires in your story, but remember, you are driving the story, and must know the final destination. Keep your hands on the wheel!

Know your story well enough so you can have fun!
Watching you panic to think of the next memorized line is harrowing for the audience. Make an outline, memorize your bullet points and play with the details. Enjoy yourself. Imagine you are at a dinner party, not a deposition.

No standup routines please.
The Moth LOVES funny people but requires that all funny people tell funny STORIES.

No rants:
Take up this anger issue with your therapist, or skip therapy and shape your anger into a story with some sort of resolution. (Stories = therapy!)

No essays:
Your eloquent musings are beautiful and look pretty on the page but unless you can make them gripping and set up stakes, they won’t work on stage.

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